Whether you are a photographer, a stay at home mom, a secretary, a coach or a student (I think you get the picture ;)), I would highly recommend over the next few weeks, for everyone to take an hour or two and reflect on the last decade. The highs, the lows, the lessons, the growth, the people, the places and moments.
Days, weeks, months and even years pass by and we can all be a little hard on ourselves sometimes, thinking we haven’t accomplished what we thought we could have. Or we might feel that one day rolls into the next. However, I promise you, if you can look back over a ten year span, you will be able to reflect on what’s truly been important.
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1. WE ALL START SOMEWHERE. JUST START.
You know that feeling of ‘I can’t believe it’s been 10 years that I have been…’ mixed with ‘I can’t believe it’s ONLY been 10 years …. ‘. 10 years goes by in a flash. It truly does. I dare you to look back on photographs you took 10 years ago and not feel this way. The days seem long, but the years are short. And so are the decades. I started this business on a whim (with my sister at the time!), and I am thankful that I did - and proud that I have persevered. It hasn’t always been unicorns and rainbows - but what worth doing ever really is?
2018 LEIGHA GRAF PHOTOGRAPHY
2. STAY CURIOUS. ALWAYS KEEP LEARNING.
I feel like this is one of the greatest gifts you can give yourself. With a love of learning and curiosity, persistence and grit and determination will quite often follow. I have found if you can let this lead your life, the outcome doesn’t matter so much. You tried something new. Lessons were learned that you can take with you.
2017 LEIGHA GRAF PHOTOGRAPHY
3. IT’S ABOUT THE COLLECTIVE.
The chapters that make the book. The photographs that tell the story. The practice everyday. The conversations over the dinner table. Maybe each of those on their own seem minor, but they compound and weave together and become the things that shape you into who you are.
And - some of the years, practices, and chapters will be better than others. And that’s ok. Refer to lesson number two.
2016 LEIGHA GRAF PHOTOGRAPHY
4. LOOK FOR THE CHEERLEADERS. OR BE ONE.
It’s funny how the universe works sometimes. There were many times over the past decade that I felt like quitting, in fact I have taken many ‘sabbaticals’ here and there. Trying to decide if I truly have time for this in my life, if I feel like it’s what I am ‘supposed’ to be doing, if this is really my ‘passion’. And most of the time when I was in these phases, someone would show up and say keep going. To them I am thankful.
2015 LEIGHA GRAF PHOTOGRAPHY
5. AND WHAT I’M MOST GRATEFUL FOR….
The people. I feel like saying ‘client’s’ is a disservice. So many of the people I have photographed have become my friends. I have followed their lives, watched families grow, kids change, being there to witness so many chapters of their lives. It has been such a gift to be a part of families legacies and cross paths with people I might not have otherwise.
2014 LEIGHA GRAF PHOTOGRAPHY
…. AND WOULD IT EVEN BE A REAL DECADE IN REVIEW UNLESS WE ….
had a quick look back on a few images from each year?!?!? Beyond seeing what I have learned from being a photographer and what is involved in taking the type of photographs I want to take, looking at the faces of these people in my photographs makes me feel so incredibly grateful for being able to do this. These photographs literally take me back to the time and place and moments shared. To all of you - thank you. Being photographed is sometimes not the easiest thing to do, and I am grateful we took the time to make these moments last.
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1. Keep your camera closeOkay, this is probably a no brainer, and I hope you keep reading the list even if you think "this is what you call a tip?!" haha, but it's seriously one the most overwhelming things for people I talk to. The thought of picking up the camera every day. The "one more thing to add to my list" thought. But really it doesn't have to be that complicated. You can do this on any camera you wish. From your iPhone to a point and shoot to your DSLR. I've chosen to do mine with my canon mkiii, but that's only because I don't find it a burden. I keep it on my counter. And yes, carry it with me most of the time. And have had people comment "I didn't even know they still made cameras like that!". For real. Yea, I'm that mom. Once I have spent my couple of minutes capturing something I'm grateful for I put it away and that's it.


4. So it's a 332Is it really a big deal if your missed a day or two? Nooooooo. It's the collective. Weather you have a perfect record or miss a few days ......or 50, your family (or you) won't care in a year (or 20) from now. Mine wasn't perfect. I would miss one, two or even three days in a row here and there. Sometimes I would fill them in with additional photos from others days and sometimes I wouldn't. Again, I just let it go and reminded myself that at the end project how grateful I would be with however many I ended up with.

6. The power of one photoWhich translates into very little of your time each day (yay!). I heard a speaker at a conference (sorry, I don't remember who it was) once talk about the power of one photo. How one photo can not only take you back to a moment, but a whole day. And it's so true. Try it.
7. Have a systemSomewhat anyhow. Mine isn't perfect but here's a rough rundown.
* I usually keep my card in my camera for the week and download one time over the week (give or take). I knew going in that I am not one to sit down daily to download, edit, organize photos. But once a week seemed manageable.
* I use photo mechanic to download, saved to folders on my computer (example: 2015_365>januaryraw>filedate of download).
* I quickly cull in photo mechanic and bring into Lightroom while renaming to the date captured
* complete my quick edits (I use RedLeaf presets which are so wonderful they make this part super fast)
* export to a new folder (example: 2015_365>januaryedit)
8. You don't have to shareI shared my images last year. But haven't this year. I am sure at one point I will here and there but I felt like I needed a bit of a break from that. I didn't share everyday either, opting to group them into groups of 6. And then quite often shared the whole month at once.
9. ResourcesiPhone: if you decide to take your 365 on your iPhone
10. What to do with it allAs 2014 was my first year doing a 365 I'm still thinking about how I want to design a large book for myself. 365 pages would be rather HUGE. However, I have ordered small 7x7 books - 2 of them. One for each of my boys. Of which I will be writing a small personal note to them as a keepsake.


